Sunday, April 10, 2011

Why I love Beijing

My German friend Marcus surrounded by five Asian ladies
Beijing is a curious place.
It's a magnet for all kinds of people around the world. I love Beijing because it gives me the freedom to explore all different types of people trying out a new culture, new language, and new environment.

Just this weekend, my friend Gala, who I met while traveling Europe last year, came over from Mongolia. Then, I introduced her to some of my international friends in Beijing who I happened to be hanging around with that night.

We ordered some Calzones and pizza, rocked some Chinese hiphop beats in the house, and were dancing salsa and tango in the living room. At one point during the night, I looked up and I realized that I was surrounded by three beautiful Mongolian girls, one German who wants to start a Chinese pillow business, one Australian studying Chinese Medicine in Beijing and his Taiwanese girlfriend, two racecar racers from Holland of Chinese descent, and a Chinese girl who is ethnically Korean.

I can't think of a single other city where this is possible.

Then there's the fashion world. People in Beijing, I admit are not the most fashionable people that you can find out there. But the market here is flowering, and I am so excited to be part of this growth and change. My new job as the brand marketing representative at Lee Coopers in Sanlitun is giving me a lot of playroom to engage Chinese customers and also learn how to position and establish a brand in the Chinese market. Just the other day, I went into the store and talked with who bunch of Chinese customers, giving them advice on styling and fashion.

Many of them were very receptive to my recommendations, and I realized that often times people only needs a little push to find a new style. Their desire and will to become more fashionable are already there, but they are apprehensive to try something new.



As Brand Ambassador @ Lee Coopers


Lee Coopers, the oldest denim brand in Europe that started in 1908


My Mongolian friend Gala and me at the store


I love Beijing because it allows me to be who I want to be while having access to influence people all around the world.


I love Beijing because it connects people of all different interests and capabilities.


I love Beijing because I have established some of the most special relationships with people that I am fortunate to have in my life right now.




Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Fear Liberation



I have been taught that you create your own destiny.


I guess I like to create things. I like to make small gifts for my family, put together videos and cards for friends, find things that have never been done or tried before, and create situations that call for new solutions.


But as much as I would like to think of myself as an independent being, I know that I wouldn't be where I am without my parents.

In many ways, we are tied to the environment that we are placed in at our birth. Some people are born royal. Some are born rich.


Then, there are people who are already marked at birth with crimes that they have never committed. The children at the Sun Village (Taiyangcun) in Beijing fall into this category.




The children at the Sun Village are neither orphans nor physically disabled, but at the same time they are susceptible to discrimination because of the crimes that their parents have committed.


My Chinese sister Paris has told me that the girl that she was supporting had a pretty traumatic childhood. Her mom killed her dad, not being able to withstand further abuse from her husband, and was sentenced a life-time imprisonment without parol. Soon after, the girl was sent to the Sun Village. She was only four when this happened.





But as soon as I entered the Sun Village, I heard laughs and giggles from several youngsters who were playing soccer on the playground.


Some children were hanging their laundry on the side, and some of the girls were braiding each other's hair. They may have been scarred deeply once in their life, but they have found new shelter at the Sun Village. I was inspired by their courage to stand up against their past and fear that no one would ever love them again.




Nelson Mandela, 1993 Nobel Peace Prize Winner said, "As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automactially liberates others."



These children at the Sun Village may not have much on the surface, but they have something that is perhaps the biggest gift of all-the ability to liberate other people just by their presence.



And I here I was thinking I was helping them with my box of American chocolates and animal crackers. The afternoon that I spent at the Sun Village was perhaps one of the most enlightening afternoons that I spent in Beijing. The children have done more for me than I can ever do for them, and I felt ashamed for thinking that just because I am better positioned in society at the moment, I would be doing all the giving.



My boyfriend asked me today over skype what was I afraid of. I blurted out without thinking, Asian ghosts and cockroaches. But perhaps I have yet to discover what my deepest fear is. Maybe I am still blind to all of the truths and realities around me to liberate myself from my own fear.




I am not in any rush to figure this out though. I want to take one step at a time in achieving this goal and facing my own fears. And when I do figure it out, I know I will look fondly back upon my memory with the children at the Sun Village.




I am on my way to liberate my deepest fear.


Monday, March 21, 2011

Life, Death, and somewhere in between

I have been thinking about death and life recently, perhaps in the light of the tragic Japanese earthquake.

Interestingly enough, some of the things I have come across in China reflected this sentiment of mine. I was walking through one of the traditional Chinese hutongs (narrow alleys in Beijing) called 南锣鼓巷(nan2luo2gu3xiang4) one day when I came across something very shocking.

At the entrance of this traditional alley, there was a large area that the Chinese government was tearing down to build new buildings. But there was something else that caught my eye.



Pretty strong sentiments. The owner of this shop was violently protesting against the Chinese government's actions of tearing down houses and shops.


The owner of shop was essentially threatening the Chinese government that he and seven members of his family would commit suicide if the government tore down his shop. He has essentially created a mock funeral for himself.

What was written in front of his shop.............


Chinese locals gathering around the site


Since watching this potent message, I have been talking to some of my local Chinese friends on their views on what they thought of this shop owner's reaction to Chinese government.
Even though some were sympathetic to the shop owner, I was amazed how most of them thought that the shop owner was actually merely trying to get more money from the government by making public threats.


Upon hearing that thought, I couldn't help to wonder what money even means to our world.
Humans are helpless against natural disasters like earthquake or tsunami. Yet, even as we realize how precious and fleeting our lives are, we still self-inflict hardships to the point where fake funerals are created in public.


Lives should be treasured, not used as means to make threats&make money.


I guess I won't be sleeping much tonight..............



Friday, March 4, 2011

Creating a World-Class Look


At Venexiana Backstage in Lincoln Center, New York Fashion Week

Creating a World-Class look for Venexiana is not a easy one. It's not just about the delicately beaded evening gowns and garments. What completes the look is the powerful make-up that empowers the models to transform into any mantra they want. This year, the main look consisted of fierce eyes highlighted by extra-long eyelashes extending both sides of the eyes,
arched eyebrows, peach colored cheeks, and plum toned lips.

Some people say that beauty created by make-up is artificial and fake. But who said beauty had to be entirely natural? Knowing your own style and knowing how to present yourself is already part of the equation.

Make-up is the art of colors.

It allows to accentuate your attractive features and minimize your least favorite.

It allows to live the moment. Gloss yourself with silver lined eyeliners at evening galas,
chiq, sepia-toned eyeshadows at business conferences, and rose cheeks and pink lips for the first date.

I think beauty is also a creation. Sure, natural beauty is doubtless beautiful by itself.
But the greatest impact, greatest inspiration comes from your own creation of beauty.
I guess that's sort of what I want to do. Creating Class Worldwide.












Thursday, February 3, 2011

A runway show 20,000 ft above ground level


At the Beijing airport on the first of February, I was told by the United Airlines front desk that I better reschedule my flight. Because of the record amount of snow that fell in the US, it was likely that I will be stuck at the Chicago airport for who knows how long.

"When is the next available flight? I asked.
"Miss Park, the earliest next flight out of Beijing will be on Feb 4th. Would you like to book the next flight?"
"What would you recommend?"
"I would stay put in Beijing if I were you. You're not likely going to get out from Chicago any time soon. It's a mess up there right now."


I had some decisions to make. My original plan was to fly from Beijing to Chicago, and then take the connecting flight from Chicago to New York. But now that my flight from Chicago to New York was cancelled, I could either stay in Beijing and wait until the snow clears up, or
just take a risk and jump on the flight to Chicago and go from there.

I knew no one from Chicago other than one of my good friends from Yale Law John-Paul,
but I decided to go ahead and take the chance. If I get stuck in Chicago, at least I will be fourteen hours closer to my destination than I would have been otherwise.



During the flight, I couldn't sleep. Maybe I was too hasty with my decision. The only thing people talked about around me was what they were going to do in Chicago and which hotels they have booked. The Chinese woman who sat next to me with her two twin sons said that she was going to see her husband in Virginia, but will probably have to stay in a hotel in Chicago for at least two nights because of the snow. Another Chinese family who sat right in front of me was going to see their son in Boston, and a guy sitting behind me named Bryan said that he was going to Albuquerque, NM.


I started getting nervous. The snow obviously wasn't going to go anywhere, and it seemed more and more likely that I would have no way out of Chicago. Not able to think about the gloomy prospect any longer, I got up my seat and walked towards the end of the aisle. There I met a flight attendant named Melanie.


We started talking about the weather, traveling, Melanie's cute airplane-shaped broach studded with cubics, and more. Melanie quickly figured out that I was into fashion, and she said she had something perfect to show me. She took out her laptop from her rainbow laptop case, and pulled up pictures of the most gorgeous girl that I have seen in my life-Supermodel Alexandra Tomlinson.


It turns out that Alexandra is Melanie's daughter (she has Melanie's beautiful green-hued eyes that changes colors depending on the lighting). Melanie had some great stories with Alexandra being a model. Starting from Facebook's co-founder Chris Hughes wooing after her to Alexandra's agency telling Alexandra that her face is too fat when she weighs mere 115 pounds at her six feet frame, being a top model was no easy task.


Melanie had all of Alexandra's photos neatly organized in slideshows, and she knew exactly when&where each photo was taken. I could tell from her voice that she was extremely proud of her daughter.


Talking about fashion with Melanie made me forget everything that was on my mind. Even being stranded in Chicago didn't seem that bad anymore.
Sure, neither of us was tall nor skinny enough to be a real supermodel, but who said you had to be 6ft tall and 115 pounds to be in a runway that you create for yourself?


Within our imaginations, we were strutting down a catwalk in Valentino's red velvet dress draped around our waists.
Within our imagination, we were drenched in the intense lighting from the ceiling, and blinded by the hundreds of flashlights coming our way.
Within our imagination, fashion no longer was a trend to take note, but a window to a different world of destiny.



20,000 ft above ground level, Melanie and I were having our own runway show.


Chanel's legendary Karl Lagerfeld (Alexandra is second from right)

This Rose Corsage is just stunning

Perfect jawline

June 1st Marie Claire Italy Cover

Valentino's signature red dress


Beautiful.

The headdress on this one is incredible

Serious face?

Love the mix of patterns on this dress


Christian Dior


Sonia Rykiel Catwalk


ZacPosen Cover shoot

That shoe is mine!

Flawless skin......

St. John Spring/Summer Women Collection

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Will there be a "Lost Decade" for China?




With so much news about the Chinese economy bombarding my ears everyday, I can't help to
wonder, "Will Chinese Economy Ever Be Lost?"





Yes, China's economy has been experiencing some incredible growth, so much so that it even succeeded in surpassing Japan as the second biggest economy of the world.
Chinese economy seems on horse on steroids at the moment, but didn't Japanese economy once look invincible back in the days?




In fact, I see a lot of similarities between Japanese economy in the 1980's and the present Chinese economy.





First, the growth of both economies depended on heavy exports.


Of course, it's no secret that China's economy is very export oriented.
Chinese products are overflowing everywhere, and it has become the expected that most of the things that you find in stores will almost always have at least something to do with China.




What about Japan?




After Japanese surrender post World War II, many Japanese soldiers were suddenly free to become cheap labor source for the emerging Japanese economy. Instead of going back to their hometowns in the countryside, many of them decided to remain in cities, where they hoped to find new jobs. The Korean War helped these soldiers find jobs by opening up more work opportunities especially in industries like steel.






Then, as the Japanese economy continued to progress into more high-tech industries, the rising Four Asian Tigers took over Japan's former manufacturing tasks.
This is actually what is happening in Southeast Asia right now. As China's living standards and wages continuously rise, a lot of manufacturing tasks are moving on to countries like Vietnam and Indonesia.





Then, does this mean that China may experience the economic recession that Japan has gone through the last decade?


Not necessarily.






Let's pause for a bit and go back to the Japanese model for a second.




Many countries (especially the United States) complain about Chinese government's artificial depreciation of the RMB, but before the Plaza Accord of 1985, Japanese government also kept the Yen very low to help its exports.





In fact, statistics show that after the Plaza Accord was signed, Japanese Yen experienced a sharper appreciation in comparison to the dollar than what Chinese RMB has ever experienced so far.




With this sudden increase in wealth due to appreciation of the Yen, Japanese consumers eagerly invested abroad and began to spend more lavishly than ever before, creating huge bubbles in the market that eventually bursted in the 1997 IMF crisis.





One of my dear friends, Jin Yan, told me what she thought over this issue over lunch today.
Jin is a feature editor at one of China's most respected economic magazines called Caijing, and she has also worked for the Economist and the LA Times in the past.



I asked Jin if she thought China would experience similar economic crisis like that of Japan.
Jin said flatly, no she didn't think so.



There may be some similarities between how Japanese and Chinese economies have developed.
But we live in a completely different world now.





For example, the political power structure of the world is completely different.
When Japan was going through its economic growth, America and the former Soviet Union were fighting Cold War.



After the collapse of the Soviet Union, America took over as the World's Super Power, and until recently US was borrowing enormous sums money to purchase Chinese products. When US stopped doing this, Chinese government had to come up with different ways to encourage its economic growths. One of the ways being eliminating the main taxes of the peasants back in 2004.






In addition, the source for Chinese and Japanese labor forces are different.
Japanese labor force came from the aftermaths of World War II, whereas Chinese labor force resulted from the Chinese economic reforms in December 1978.
This economic reform allowed for more natural flow of the labor force to gradually flow into the market.





Furthermore, the sheer size of China and Japan is incomparable.
Even though China's economic growths may be quantitively based rather than qualitative,
the fact that China is so big makes it easier to surpass the success level that Japan has experienced in past.





Of course, China is not without problems.
Corruption is still rampant in China, and businessmen who 打擦边球儿(da3ca1bian1qiu2: literally to skirt the line legally or morally) are too many to count.




China is also still struggling to resolve its pollution problems, and most of the development is too heavily centered around the big cities.






Yet, China has successfully managed to host the Olympics and organize the Shanghai World Expo.


China's second-tier cities are experiencing active growths, and out of Top 10 World Banks today, 4 are China's State Banks.



China is also more actively trying to solve its environment problem.





There were so many places where China's economy could have gone awry, yet
China has managed so far to keep things in control for the most part.




So will there be a "Lost Decade" for China?







Not as long as China can continue to break all the rules .







I think I would have to give a big nod to what my friend Jin calls the best description of the economy.


不确定(bu4que4ding4: Uncertain).